Make Up Tips for Busy Mummas!

Blog take over from the wonderful Caro Watson; professional make up artist.



As mums we all know that its difficult to look our best while the little ones have kept us up half the night, and are tugging on our legs while trying to get ready to do anything, and if you’re anything like me then your little ones probably end up looking ten times better than you do when you do eventually leave the house, in a beautiful new outfit, while you’re still wearing your maternity tops because they are comfy and you can breast feed in them, am I right?!?!

Well I am here to help you try to achieve a natural make up look that will help you look fresh and hopefully not like the walking dead. Obviously time is of the essence, and the quicker you can do your make up, the less likely it is that your toddler has drawn all over the walls in your absence. The key to this is to look after your skin! The better your skin is the less make up you have to wear to cover up and therefore the less time it takes to complete your desired look. Staying hydrated is key to to good skin, as is sleep (I know thats not always possible). Avoid caffeine and sugary drinks and load up with water. 
A good skin care routine is essential also, now a lot of this can be done at night after the kids have gone to sleep, so hopefully you can spend a bit more time on yourself, give yourself a little evening pamper. Always take your make up off at the end of the day, NOT with a baby wipe!! Use a cleansing product that is suitable for your skin type, then use a toner and moisturise, all skin types need moisturising, even oily skin, you just need to find a moisturiser that is suitable for your skin type, shop around, take advice from friends and family, ask for advice at the skincare counter, but don’t always believe everything they say, remember they are trying to sell you something. Do this routine morning and night and your skin will thank you. 

Now on to make up, always use a moisturiser and if you have oily skin probably a primer too before putting your foundation on, you don’t want to apply your foundation onto bare skin as it will not look as even and probably won’t last as long. Ensure you are using the correct shade of foundation for you, your face should end up matching the colour of your neck, so you don’t look like you are wearing a mask, all make up counters should offer a colour matching service. For a daytime look you could also opt for a BB cream or tinted moisturiser instead of a foundation. For my demonstration I used MAC face and body foundation, I applied this with a kabuki brush to create a light coverage on the skin, I then used a light reflecting concealer under the eyes, this should be patted in and not swept so as to avoid it going into and accentuating any fine lines you may have gained since becoming a mum. Set this all with a light dusting of translucent powder. 

For the eyes, a simple mascara will help to open your eyes up, always curl your eyelashes first to achieve the full open eye look. When buying mascaras, its all in the wands, find a wand that you like and suits your eyelashes, most people will go for a black or dark brown, but feel free to experiment with colour, I find that a blue mascara really helps the blue in my eyes to pop! 

Next is lips, for my demonstration we just opted for a nice shiny lip balm to soften and give the lips a bit of a sheen, a gloss or nude lipstick could work too. If opting for a lipstick, apply a layer, then blot onto a tissue and apply another layer for longevity.


Finally finish with your cheeks, a blush or bronzer will help to finish the look and give you a healthy looking glow. For the demonstration I used Charlotte Tilbury blusher in Ecstasy, I applied a small amount (you don’t want to look like a clown) to the apple of the cheeks and blended outwards. 

Ta dah! you now have your finished daytime look, which with a little practice should only take you 10 mins or so to complete. 

Good luck ladies!! ūüôā

Do what makes you feel good…

 So we have all seen those beautiful Mummas who manage to get the little ones ready aswell applying a immaculate layer of make up. Well done to those of you who manage it, but for me I’m having a good day if my hair is washed and iv brushed my teeth! 

Make-up seems such a luxury these days, not only in putting it on but also buying it! From spending pennies as a teenager on cheap lipstick, to investing in some really lovely bits for my wedding, through to not even thinking about it when I had my little one. I now have an amalgamation of all sorts but can not bare to part with any of it! It symbolises a time in my life where I had time, where I had head space to contemplate what might look best rather than what stops me looking worse! Although that balance is shifting back slowly.

Please don’t get me wrong, I do not believe us Mummas have to wear make-up in order to feel good, we should do whatever makes us happy, but for me it’s one of those things that helps me feel better. We all have a variety of things we do to give us confidence, for others it’s shoes, food, hanging out with friends, singing, playing instruments, or simply going for a walk or all the above, we all need a boost of energy and confidence!

For me make-up was a sign that I was in control and I think for many people it is the same. I even remember trying to put my make up on moments after giving birth! I look back and laugh, but that was my routine and I went into automatic pilot, dazed by the whole thing.

Now, getting out of the house is a monumental task, so there is no way I’m slowing that down! So makeup has really fallen down in my list of priorities. Now if I put make up on it takes me ages! My skin is awful due to lack of sleep, my bags under my eyes need industrial strength concealer and make up is generally applied whilst wrestling most of my really expensive eye shadows and brushes from a toddlers vice like grip as he’s insisting he wants to do it himself! (He has left the house several times with glittery eye shadow and blush on!).

For me I’m now at a stage where I need to know what the minimum is that I can put on in the shortest amount of time, without looking like I did in school when I had no idea how to apply make up! Oh and with my tiny pocket of money, I need to know I’m buying the right things.

So for a bit of fun and indulgence we are launching our Spring programme with a demo and talk from Make Up Artist Caro Watson at our next Tea,Talks and More event. It’s on Monday 22 May 2-4pm at the Old Dispensary in Ely. If you’re not up for the make-up part just come for the cake! 

Oh and because people loved the recipe last time, here is another one-( very handy for picnics as some if you already know!): 

Cinnamon and Sugar Popcorn

10 cups of popcorn popped

2 tbsp Light brown sugar

1 tsp ground cinnamon 

2tbsp melted butter

Method:

Pop the popcorn

Melt the butter, pour into popcorn and mix

Mix the cinnamon and sugar

Coat the popcorn and shake! 

Done! 

I’m looking forward to it and I hope you join in too!

Spring, Mummas, Easter &More!

So it seems that with the blossom blooming and the sun shining, it is not only nature that coming out of hibernation but so is my inspiration!¬†It’s hard to believe how much the sun has an impact on us as happy people, but as I walk around, on my hundredth sleep walk this year, people seem happier, well some! (Some people really need to learn to how to smile!Geez!They need some more sun!)

You can feel people starting to come out more, be up for more and generally happier. I wonder if its to do with the fact that children can now come out to play, what do you think Mummas?!

So as I wondered the paths of the beautiful Anglesey Abbey surrounded by gorgeous blue bells and blossom lots of ideas for events sprung to mind!

Events that might include some making with artists, some knot knitting, some gin drinking, some book reading and some playing with flowers! Fancy it?!

With Spring now here and lots of talk of Easter all I’m thinking about is food and chocolate, what’s new I hear you say! My bubba and I love cooking together and thought we’d share a recent recipe to try at home too:

Easter Egg Brownies

Ingredients 

  • 185g unsalted butter
  • 185g dark chocolate
  • 3 eggs
  • 275g golden caster sugar
  • 85g plain flour
  • 40g cocoa powder
  • 3 cadburys creme eggs (or your favourite equivalent!)
  • 150g mini eggs (again go with your favourite!)
  • Sprinkles, edible glitter, go crazy, ¬†more is better!

Method

  1. Melt chocolate and butter together and allow to cool.
  2. Heat oven, 180c/160c fan/gas4
  3. Grease and line 20cm square tin
  4. Whisk eggs and caster sugar together until double the size.
  5. Fold in melted chocolate
  6. Sieve the flour and cocoa powder into the eggs and chocolate
  7. Pour into tin and bake for 20mins
  8. Cut up the creme eggs, and smash the other mini eggs in a postal and mortar (pent up anger? Here you go!)
  9. After 20 mins take the brownies out and push the creme eggs and mini eggs into the brownies. Bake for 5mins
  10. Once baked allow to cool and put in fridge to firm up
  11. Cut up and sprinkle more eggs, melted chocolate, glitter!! Put some cute fluffy chics on too if you like?!
  12. Take a picture!

Send us some pictures via Facebook and instagram. Tag #mummacake we’d love to see your creations!

Here’s some cakes picked from a few past events! Mummas and More events wouldn’t be the same unless accompanied by some expert mumma cake creations! It’s great having great cake-maker friends! So always know, if you come to one of our events, there will always be cake!


Hope you all have a wonderful Easter and keep an eye out for future events coming up, we’d love to see you there!

IMakeKnots & More

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*Imakeknots&more* Much of my career in the past has been about programming workshops, talks and events for galleries and museums. These events aspire to explore exhibitions, collections  in different ways; giving people new skills and inspiring ideas. These events can; provoke questions, teach new skills, share skills, widen aspirations, begin conversations and allow young people and adults to further understand themselves and others. Most of all, they can make them feel happier, more respected and valued people.

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I wanted to create a programme like this for Mummas & More and help mums stay strong, be inspired, gain skills and have fun! I wanted to create a programme that kept mums mind active whilst giving the opportunity to develop skills and make new friends.

The first creative workshop, a few weeks ago now, was led by the wonderful IMakeKnots. These ladies make the most beautiful knotted, knitted and crocheted necklaces, snoods, scarves and accessory wonders!

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The delightful thing about sitting around a table making, is the conversations that all makers have. There is a neutral ground that everyone enters into, that allows inhibited conversations to happen and pressures and nerves of meeting new people to be defused. So a group of mummas, met, knitted, knotted and made some beautiful knitted necklaces. There was lots of chatting and people learned new skills. It was to my delight that my lovely friend Michelle not only enjoyed the workshop  but she was now also bitten with the crochet and knitting bug, so much so, that she has has now set up her own little business called @a_bit_knotty . Its brilliant news and I’m so pleased! I’m addicted to the thrill of being inspired and so it so great when I see others experiencing that too.

It’s these stories that reassure me that that I’m heading in the right direction, so hopefully we have lots more of these event in the future! So if you have an idea just go for it, you’ll never know until you try !

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Keep a look out for more creative workshops in the future. I always need Mumma’s inputs and would love to connect more with creative practitioners so please feel free to get in contact.

 

Tea, Talks & More #3

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It was due to my need to feel more like me;‚Äėbefore baby‚Äô that I was inspired to start Mummas&More.

After leaving a fast moving job, dumping a head full of information to my colleagues on my last day of work,  and stepping out of a fast moving arts sector, I felt lost. I was to become a mother for the first time. I didn‚Äôt know what to expect. I didn‚Äôt feel confident and I couldn‚Äôt research my way out of this one. I had to ride the wave, learn as I went and crack on! I can say now that I‚Äôm still learning and had no other choice but to crack on!

So I had a little boy, who was just 4 months when i started Mummas and More and in those early months, its sad to say, but my phone was my window to the world. I would sit pinned to the sofa whilst he slept on me unable to turn off ‚ÄėLoose Women‚Äô on the TV because the remote was too far away, trapped in a feeding chair, or sat in the car waiting for him to wake up from his much needed nap, and my phone would allow me to read about what was going on in the world.

Soon I discovered blogs! There were blogs written by funny, honest, insightful and challenging mummas, and I found myself reading all sorts of articles that really resonated with my life. It was so nice to know that I wasn‚Äôt alone in my thoughts and experiences and to know that there were people out there joking and reflecting about it too. Don‚Äôt get me wrong, I used to not understand the blogging world, and felt it was very clicky and perhaps just for the ‚Äėtrendy‚Äô mums, but its really wasn‚Äôt (even if I did have aspirations to be a trendy mum!).

So our recent event, Tea Talks and More #3 ; the third of its series, was about amazing blogging mothers.

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We had the gorgeous JustSayingMum telling us about  how to find the humour in raising teenagers! This is a time that really scares me but it was really refreshing to hear her approach to discussing the teenage years through her blogs, particularly with having a professional model and actress as one of her children. Her latest series of blogs looks at how we imagine our children to be as teenagers and features guest writers such as Kate Orson , MotherPukka, & The Unmumsy Mum, with many more to come.
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We also had the wonderfully charming Marmalade Pie with her beautiful online shop and lifestyle blog. A blogger who shares all things that inspire her, including making activities with her children and pretty items to brighten up your home. She firmly believes in what William Morris once said, ‚Äėeverything in your home must be beautiful or useful‚Äô. I quite agree!

 

‚Äėeverything in your home must be beautiful or useful‚Äô.

 

 

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Finally we had the honest and inspiring blogger #100daysnotv. Emma and her husband realised that life had been taken over by TV and that it could be enjoyed more if they took it out of the equation. Whilst although TV didn‚Äôt entirely disappear, the challenge of 100 days without and the the blog allowed their whole family to stop and focus on what was important and the potential experiences they could have. It made them ensure activities they did were of benefit to the whole family, and it did! It not only has this had a large benefit but the blog itself has opened up lots of opportunities to Emma including cocktail tasting, invitations to new restaurant tastings and shop openings in the Cambridge area. Emma says that her blog has ‚Äúhelped her to find herself again‚ÄĚ.

Mummas&More has brightened up my life, allowed me to follow my inspirations and interests  and helped me to find me again, and I hope that the Mummas&More blog and events programme can help us be mummas & more that we all know we are.

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All of us together!

Tea Talks & More; Our Launch Event!

With our second event less than a week away Emily’s found time to reflect on how our launch event went. It’s almost two months and later (due to some very snotty babies and mums), but we’re super excited to see lots of you and your babies again (and hopefully some new faces too!).  We’ve also got plenty more exciting events up our sleeves coming very soon…

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So the morning of our Launch Event had arrived. It had taken many a coffee-fueled meeting to get to this stage and now we realised we had to see if anyone would come!

We decided the launch of Mummas & More should be one of our Tea, Talks & More events. The concept behind this event is to give Mummas something intellectual to think about and help to celebrate the amazing talents and specialisms that our local Ely Mummas have. As mothers, many conversations in our lives revolve around feeding, sleeping and nappies and we as people get a bit forgotten. So this event was to give mothers something else to talk about with other like minded mothers.

We held the event at the Babylon Gallery which was also exhibiting the glorious Matisse exhibition. This setting really made the event something special and with sunshine pouring through the windows we couldn’t have asked for better!

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So goody bags were prepped, flowers were made, toys were positioned, patissiere cakes were poised, tea was brewing and babies were fed. All set, but would you come?

Before we knew it there was a rumbling of push chairs, a convoy of prams was heading towards the gallery, and over 35 mothers squeezed in the gallery with pushchairs and gurgling babies and children. It was so lovely to hear such a hub of noise!

Talks ranged from climate change in 5 minutes, professional patissiere, through to manta ray research and they went down a treat, with people saying how refreshing it was to listen to such inspirational mothers!

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So with amazing cakes from the wonderful Fiona Patissiere, the great talks and the glorious setting we couldn’t have been more chuffed with how our first event went!  Here’s to the next one!

 

Mummas & More: Our Only Failure is Never to Try

IMG_3671I am Emily, Mumma to Arthur who was born in August 2015. I suppose you could call me the instigator of Mummas&More. Having come from a creative background, with a Fine Art Degree as well as Silversmithing training, I always crave something creative to do and I found that I needed this even more so after the birth of my baby boy.

I have always been very passionate about arts and creativity. I found that¬†creativity and creative people are something I have to have in my life, both for escapism and enjoyment, but I also find that if I don‚Äôt I feel a little bit lost. I’ve made creativity my career too, working in a role which ¬†strives to ensure all young people gain¬†access to arts and culture. In the past I have¬†worked in a number of arts and cultural¬†institutions such as Kettles Yard, Fitzwilliam¬†Museum, ADeC, BurySt Edmunds Art Gallery, my roles have included working as an Education Officer at the¬†Sainsbury for Visual Art at University of East¬†Anglia and currently as a programme¬†manager for Festival Bridge at the Norfolk¬†and Norwich Festival. I¬†have¬†developed an internationally renowned¬†education and events programme and have delivered over 150 events every year for adults, young people, families and early¬†years audiences, as well as delivering international research conferences,¬†workshops with internationally acclaimed artists and practitioners, workshops for¬†young people, interactive activities for children, early years artists workshops,¬†seminars, talks and many more events. I am also a bespoke¬†invitation designer,¬†printmaker, silversmith, arts educator and¬†one of three east representatives for¬†an organisation called engage (The National Association for Gallery Education).

IMG_3675So, crazy as it may sound, after I came out of the baby/childbirth fog (although its debatable that I have never left it!) I started to crave something creative and something for me. Don’t get me wrong, I have never NOT wanted to spend time with Arthur, quite the opposite in fact, which is why what ever I was conjuring up, it had to be something that Arthur could attend too. I found that the bond between Mumma and child is so precious especially in those early days, so wanted to come up with something that nurtured both my creativity and the bond between Arthur and I.

IMG_3670It turns out that I was not the only Mumma who thought this. As I went round¬†some of the brilliant baby groups in Ely I began to chat to mothers and get to know them better and¬†slowly little bits of them as women, started to seep through conversations of¬†nappies, sleeping and feeding. It suddenly dawned on me that I was¬†surrounded my women who had some amazing skills, expertise and passions¬†that I wasn‚Äôt even aware of, but that I really wanted to get to know more about. ¬†Together with Amy and¬†Katie; two other Mumma‚Äôs craving creativity,¬†we came up with the idea for a creative events¬†programme for mothers, where the bond¬†between mother and baby was nurtured, whilst¬†giving time for and focus on something for¬†mothers to enjoy… Mummas & More was born!

A bit about Mummas & More

Mummas & More is (or will be!) a programme of creative, inspiring, intellectually  stimulating and exciting events, talks and workshops, designed with Mummas in mind. It will value the relationship between parents, carers, and their children, particularly that first stage when our little ones are so tiny.

Who is it for?

Mummas of course! Particularly Mummas who are perhaps still on maternity leave or have returned back to work part time and have small children.

Babies and small children will always be welcome at events. However we may also programme some events that are just for Mummas and well let you know which ones they are.

How will it all work?

There will be a programme of a variety of events throughout the year of all shapes and sizes. Some types of events might be more regular meet ups and some might be a one off spot light events.

Mummas and More will programme and lead the events, but we will also invite practitioners and workshops leaders too.

These events will be bookable via our website (we’re working on that right now!).

How do we find out more?

The website will hold the whole programme and all information about each event. We also will have Facebook and Instagram pages and eventually Twitter too!

Our Facebook Page will have more instant information about up and coming events.

Our Facebook Group will have more specific information about perhaps certain conversations we have had at events and this group will be less public.

Our Instagram page will hopefully have some inspirational content for Mummas to follow along with our blog on our website too.

We really hope that this is something you all will enjoy coming to, whether is just one event or something more regular. We really look forward to seeing you all there.